The widespread use of social media has introduced new terms.
\nWhat is banter? This English word refers to lighthearted, harmless jokes shared between friends, whether it\u2019s a verbal exchange or a meme shared in a group chat. However, sometimes banter can cross friendly boundaries and turn into bullying without us even realizing it.<\/p>\n
In the online space, it\u2019s hard to draw a clear line between harmless jokes\u2014banter\u2014and bullying. Misinterpretation of comments or posts happens often since you can\u2019t see the author\u2019s face or hear their tone. You may not intend to hurt anyone, but what you see as a friendly joke could be seen as harassment by someone else. Here\u2019s how to maintain friendly relationships:<\/p>\n
Avoid particularly personal topics<\/p>\n
Set some boundaries. Making jokes about someone\u2019s appearance or personal identity characteristics, such as gender, race, sexuality, or religion, should not be fair game. Additionally, if you know someone well, you likely know what could hurt them. Even if they start a joke, it\u2019s best to avoid sensitive topics if you know it might upset them.<\/p>\n
Saying \u201cI was just joking\u201d doesn\u2019t help after the fact<\/p>\n
Even if you saw your words as a simple joke, if they upset someone, it\u2019s best to apologize. Avoid debating what you intended with the joke, as this often escalates the situation. Try to put yourself in the other person\u2019s shoes and remember that apologizing is the best way to make things right.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t be a passive observer<\/p>\n
If you sense that someone has gone too far in a group chat, kindly suggest that their comment might be taken the wrong way\u2014either by replying to the post or sending a direct message. When they realize their joke was inappropriate or excessive, they\u2019ll likely stop. 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