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The widespread use of social media has introduced new terms.
What is banter? This English word refers to lighthearted, harmless jokes shared between friends, whether it’s a verbal exchange or a meme shared in a group chat. However, sometimes banter can cross friendly boundaries and turn into bullying without us even realizing it.
In the online space, it’s hard to draw a clear line between harmless jokes—banter—and bullying. Misinterpretation of comments or posts happens often since you can’t see the author’s face or hear their tone. You may not intend to hurt anyone, but what you see as a friendly joke could be seen as harassment by someone else. Here’s how to maintain friendly relationships:
Avoid particularly personal topics
Set some boundaries. Making jokes about someone’s appearance or personal identity characteristics, such as gender, race, sexuality, or religion, should not be fair game. Additionally, if you know someone well, you likely know what could hurt them. Even if they start a joke, it’s best to avoid sensitive topics if you know it might upset them.
Saying “I was just joking” doesn’t help after the fact
Even if you saw your words as a simple joke, if they upset someone, it’s best to apologize. Avoid debating what you intended with the joke, as this often escalates the situation. Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and remember that apologizing is the best way to make things right.
Don’t be a passive observer
If you sense that someone has gone too far in a group chat, kindly suggest that their comment might be taken the wrong way—either by replying to the post or sending a direct message. When they realize their joke was inappropriate or excessive, they’ll likely stop. And if they don’t, seek help—report it or inform a trusted adult.