Dealing with Conflict

Children often spend time together in various activities: they play, study, dance, watch films, listen to music, and so on. Naturally, they sometimes agree and sometimes disagree on different topics. For example, some children believe football is a better sport than chess, while others enjoy drawing more than painting. Every opinion is valuable and worthy of respect.

When working with others, it’s important to listen and consider everyone’s input before making a decision. This is possible only through discussion and compromise.
Sometimes, differing opinions and desires can lead to heated arguments, resulting in what we call a conflict. Conflict can escalate into a fight, involving shouting, pushing, insults, and disrespectful behavior. When this happens, everyone feels worse; no resolution is reached, and people end up feeling upset, scared, and sad. Conflicts and fights can even cause friends to fall out with each other.

It’s possible to avoid conflict and make decisions together if you try to:
• Think about what the other person is feeling and thinking.
• Listen to others and consider what they have to say.
• Control your emotions.
• Hold back if you feel yourself getting angry.
• Consider that others' suggestions might also be interesting to you.

Remember, people who cannot control their emotions or manage their anger are more likely to become part of conflicts or fights. Resolving conflict peacefully is a sign of strength, not weakness.